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Why use the term African-American? by questionTimeELIFin explainlikeimfive

[–]countingchickens 0 points1 point ago

Yeah, I have an "African-American" friend who is actually Jamaican-Canadian. She gets a kick out of it mostly.

I was raped repeatedly when I was 7 and 8. Years later when I told my parents, they blamed me. by ElyMinnowin self

[–]countingchickens 5 points6 points ago

I was in a household that didn't really "believe" in depression

With a bipolar dad?! Those are some almost admirable avoidance skillz.

Seriously, though. My sister and I were abused as kids, and my mom beats herself up for not noticing at the time. No way I would have gone to her then, though, since she was totally zonked on depression. I watch my sister with her kids, and am amazed at their relationship - her kids trust her to handle any information and situation, and she listens to them and takes them seriously even over small concerns. It seems to me that it's more important to have open lines of communication than to watch for any signs - especially since, as you say, many of the signs look like normal teenagerhood. Then again, I'm not a mom, so I hesitate to say I know anything about parenting.

Anyway, props to you. fistbump

Oh, and if your kid is a girl, check out Neil Gaiman's Blueberry Girl, it's a beautiful expression of what (I assume) we all want for our girls.

Found a fraud on Facebook with 55K+ followers. It's claiming to be accepting donations for Obama, Planned Parenthood, Elizabeth Warren, Doctors without Borders. Help me check legitimacy and/or shut this down. by sandelionin AskReddit

[–]countingchickens 1 point2 points ago

Yeah, like I told the other guy, I 'liked' it because it posted links to interesting articles. I never really thought of it as a good discussion site since everyone, owner included, was kind of dickish, but it was a decent source for news. :(

Found a fraud on Facebook with 55K+ followers. It's claiming to be accepting donations for Obama, Planned Parenthood, Elizabeth Warren, Doctors without Borders. Help me check legitimacy and/or shut this down. by sandelionin AskReddit

[–]countingchickens 1 point2 points ago

I 'liked' them because they link to interesting news articles pretty regularly. I don't really pay any attention to the discussions that go on there, or to the fundraising - although I have seen it advertised - but I am feeling conflicted now, with all this suspicion. It never seemed like a problematic page, sigh.

Hello, Reddit. by youngluckin Youngluck

[–]countingchickens 6 points7 points ago

Nice to have you back, sir. You've touched a lot of lives. I'm glad you're back on the right side of the fence. Take good care.

Philadelphia has had 32 murders this year. Not 32 murders in the last 12 months, 32 murders since January 1st. by fapficionadoin TrueReddit

[–]countingchickens 0 points1 point ago

According to at least some ways of reckoning it is #1: "Murders are up again this year in Philadelphia, and the city still has the highest homicide rate of the nation's 10 most populous cities, according to stats provided by each city's police department." (FTA)

But I take your point - Phila is no Motor City.

Reddit, what is the best piece of advice you know? by seslain AskReddit

[–]countingchickens 0 points1 point ago

Technically, according to prescriptive grammar, I think you'd need a 'with' before the 'any other guy' for your first meaning (he'll sleep with you as with any other guy). As it is, 'any other guy' should be a second subject parallel to the first.

That said, in the real world, it's potentially ambiguous.

Question: How hard is it to fire a teacher who is tenured but has done something highly inappropriate/unprofessional and deserves to be fired? by quincy1998in teaching

[–]countingchickens 0 points1 point ago

/Burned-out lawyer turned teacher

Huh, interesting. I'd be curious to hear a little about how the jobs compare - they are such wildly different professions, although they share a number of central aspects (based on public self-presentation to a degree, requires attention to detail and some grasp of basic psychology...). Also, my husband is a teacher turned burned-out lawyer ;)

Good Girl Gina by pinkzebraprintin AdviceAnimals

[–]countingchickens 3 points4 points ago

I like Glinda. You got the Good Witch background and the hard g.

A tale of abuse and revenge by Lithrosin beglat

[–]countingchickens 1 point2 points ago

gratissima magistrae est fabula! I'm so glad I decided to drop by the /r tonight to see if anything was going on :) Maybe another discipulus could offer a translation, or write a response to this? Scribite, O discipuli!

first class link by countingchickensin beglat

[–]countingchickens[S] 0 points1 point ago

I'm not averse to moving the time back some, an hour earlier, even 1.5, would be ok with me if that's easier for people. Feel free to put up a new post on the subject and let others weigh in. Maybe it won't help for tomorrow, but the following week could go easier on you.

I've been diagnosed with Stage II breast cancer. I'm a mother of a 2 and 5 year old. Reddit, I'm looking for two things: practical advice and anything to make me laugh. by galactica216in AskReddit

[–]countingchickens 0 points1 point ago

My uncle - who was treated for many years at MD Anderson, BTW, and they were amazing - said that chemo made everything taste nasty and metallic, and that adding a little tabasco made it better. I hope you'll never need to find out if it would work for you.

Everybody's rootin' for ya :)

West Philadelphia, first snow 2012 by countingchickensin windowshots

[–]countingchickens[S] 0 points1 point ago

The kind of amazing thing is that I was not expecting them. I should know better. But I do love W Phila :)

first class link by countingchickensin beglat

[–]countingchickens[S] 1 point2 points ago

Latin is totally awesome. BUT ancient Greek is awesomer ;)

I'm going to put the audio up in the dropbox tonight, and I saved the full chat to the last page of the vyew room. Yes, it will be peculiar, but at least it's there...

Cheers, and thanks so much for your engagement tonight!

intro material by countingchickensin beglat

[–]countingchickens[S] 0 points1 point ago

Someone else had this problem, so I created a dropbox where I uploaded the audio, and she had no problems with that. Send me an email (doc.chickens@gmail) for the details; others who are interested can also email me for login info, I just don't want to post them here for various reasons.

The Rise of the New Groupthink by technomadin TrueReddit

[–]countingchickens 5 points6 points ago

You'd be surprised how many teachers are introverts. I have only personal experience as evidence, but I'm in education so know a lot of teachers. Anyway, the kind of interaction required of being in front of a class is qualitatively very different from the kinds of social and professional situations this article is mainly talking about.

Actually this got me curious. Here's a discussion about introverts as teachers on an educational forum, i.e. teachers talking to each other about their experiences. This is an article studying correlation between personality type and teaching styles (I only read the abstract). So...

In an effort to bring this back to something near the topic: there are such interesting studies recently on using group work in classrooms and the inefficacy of lecturing. I guess, like everything, it's about finding a good balance.

reddit, everyone has gaps in their common knowledge. what are some of yours? by catsinmypajamasin AskReddit

[–]countingchickens 0 points1 point ago

I think the whole internet is trolling me. I'm going to look this up in a book tomorrow to verify.

reddit, everyone has gaps in their common knowledge. what are some of yours? by catsinmypajamasin AskReddit

[–]countingchickens 1 point2 points ago

I sew frequently and fairly well, and I'm still pretty convinced it's mostly magic.

reddit, everyone has gaps in their common knowledge. what are some of yours? by catsinmypajamasin AskReddit

[–]countingchickens 0 points1 point ago

'Ague' is the one that still throws me off. Listening to an audiobook I heard it pronounced 'ay-gyew,' which is uglier than I expected. On the plus side, it's not like I'll ever need to use this word in conversation...

IAmA former religious cult member who spent 27 years having all areas of my life completely controlled by someone else. AMA by not_your_normal_girlin IAmA

[–]countingchickens 1 point2 points ago

Y'know, you're neat. You have such a positive outlook, and haven't let the past color your hope for the future, and seem to have found a pretty decent balance of realism and optimism. I aspire to such an attitude. Interesting AMA and I wish you all the best for a long and happy free life. Also, your construction skills are awesome, and that's what pushed me over the edge into commenting :)

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