Also, I don't know that it makes sense to say that anti-gay marriage folks are interfering with society. They're trying to maintain the status quo. Agree or disagree with their viewpoint, it's the gay rights activists that are trying to "interfere" with the current laws of our society.

Wrong. Just flat-out, painfully wrong. Gay people are a part of society as much as anyone else, and everything you've just written presumes that heterosexuals and only heterosexuals have some kind of unique ownership of society and the status quo. They don't. Society isn't theirs alone; they don't own society any more than gay people do. The "current laws of society" that you cite are themselves an act of interference with the lives of a segment of society. "Trying to maintain the status quo" in this regard necessarily entails interfering with society and people's lives. Working to legalize gay marriage does not bring about any such interference and, in fact, explicitly reduces it.