The moment every BB fan decided that they hate Skyler

mi-16evil · 1 day

That was my guess but I wasn't sure since I didn't realize it was the name of the episode. Thanks!

mi-16evil · 1 day

Gotchya, that was my guess but I wasn't positive.

mi-16evil · 2 days

Alright, this is the fourth IFT comment I've seen. Can you tell me what IFT is supposed to be?

DJFSU · 6 days

Many women, gay or not, aren't comfortable in dresses. If she finds herself more comfortable in a suit, it's her damn wedding day, so she shouldn't have to worry about what other people wish she'd worn. They're not trying to alter any social norms in this picture - they're just trying to be a happy couple on their wedding day. Not to be snappy, this is just the 2nd or 3rd comment here about her wearing a suit as if it's completely absurd.

LutzExpertTera · 8 days

This makes complete sense. I keep hearing how it's totally Victoria and lots of people still thought it might be Robin til this finale. Glad I'm not the only one paying attention to the clues! I'll be curious to see how much of your theory holds up.

LutzExpertTera · 9 days

That wasn't the reveal... half my facebook feed thinks so too. If you think about it, two major clues were that he meets the mother at Barney's wedding and that it was a student at the school Ted taught at. Also, the writers keep letting everyone know it's NOT anyone Ted has already dated. Thus, it can't be Victoria. There's still a season 8 in the works and, from an interview I read, they might go for 9 seasons, so don't reel for too long :P

Hawkfan · 10 days

It's not her. 1) he meets the mother at BARNEY'S wedding, which is clearly after he meets victoria by a long shot and 2) the mother is Cindy's roommate. pretty sure that's not victoria either.

I like her character but half my facebook feed thinks this finale finally revealed that Victoria is the mother. she's not, and this wasn't a series finale. sigh...

behindthesleeve · 13 days

..... I didn't realize I had another reddit account. How's it going me?

sjmoore · 13 days

Your comment makes me think an "explanation" feature under "looking for" would be nice - kind of how they do it with the questions. I like the way you explained this but it's hard to know how to interpret that off what's listed on a page.

sjmoore · 13 days

Thanks for both of your comments, you give some good advice to think about! And I like your perspective on the pressure thing.

sjmoore · 13 days

It seems to be the same for me. Lots of people focusing on other things. Part of the issue may be that I'm planning to be in graduate school for ages and keep meeting people on the same boat... people that busy aren't usually into serious relationships I'm finding. Don't just roll with it if it's not making you happy though, that leads to some shitty times (been there, done it).

sjmoore · 13 days

Scary to think there are actually guys who do this on purpose. I went in thinking so, read some comments and started to think otherwise, and now I'm hearing it's true again haha. Some people are just strange

sjmoore · 13 days

Really? I don't typically introduce a guy to my friends until we're together... same with my friends and their dates. I don't think I've ever met their friends first actually. Interesting.

sjmoore · 13 days

Thanks, I'm glad you think so. I try really hard to be a good partner and understand things, but feeling lied to really throws me off.

sjmoore · 13 days

Sorry to hear you got stuck in the same boat. Reading some of the comments here makes me see their side better I guess, but that doesn't make it any less frustrating.

sjmoore · 13 days

I see what you're saying, I wish there was a way to "protect" myself though. It's starting to feel like I'm doing something wrong because I seem to be able to get guys to enjoy time with me and have romantic feelings for me, just not able to get them to do anything with those things. From a few comments from guys here though I guess I see the other side a bit more.

sjmoore · 13 days

I don't understand your second part really, but his words were "I've never been the boyfriend type and not sure I will be actually". If he's never been that type, it's not "changing your mind" to tell me that later. Never = you knew that already.

sjmoore · 13 days

Agreed with you entirely til the edit.. I'm by a long shot just okay with any guy and actually kind of offended even though you're just a person on the internet. These guys were several months apart and I haven't been okay with looking for a boyfriend in many years. If I say I like someone, I mean it. It's usually me saying up front I want to keep casual. Just feels shitty to know I've forgotten what I'm doing as far as dating goes.

sjmoore · 13 days

How is it overbearing to communicate a desire for moving forward at some point? I CLEARLY stated in many comments here I never said they had to be my boyfriend right now, but I'm not okay with months turning to years with no commitment. I also said I was happy with things as they are, but don't want this forever. What am I supposed to do to communicate that that isn't "overbearing" or not up front/clear enough? You're sort of leaving no wiggle room on my end. If having desires is needy and communicating them is overbearing, I have no options.

Obviously you ripped that statement out of context. I said I'm sick of needy being a term thrown around when things don't go a guys way. I never said ALL GUYS DO THAT. Major difference.

And if you, once again, just read my posts, I've said I feel like waiting til I mention it to tell me you don't want it is dishonest, but also enjoy what we have and am leaving the option for him to see if anything changes/willing to let him know when I stop enjoying things as they are.

sjmoore · 13 days

When did I say I was okay with guys being on the receiving end at any point? I never even came anywhere near implying that. I said it sucks and I know it happens to guys too. -.- Seriously right now..

sjmoore · 13 days

My definition is basically "I've stopped seeing/sleeping with other people" but unless the boyfriend/girlfriend step arrives, that can always change. That's just what happens/what guys claim is the situation when they do stop being exclusive. Sounds stupid to me cause it takes all the meaning out of the term, but if that's what guys view it as they're only making the label more necessary.

sjmoore · 13 days

Both responded with "I'm only seeing you too", but one of them was lying. I'm still talking to the second guy and as I said in another comment, I believe him. He's got a horrible work schedule and if he actually fit in another girl, I'd be more impressed than mad. But I do consider it a lie to roll with the relationship when I'm being really up front and you KNOW the whole time you don't want what I do.

sjmoore · 13 days

Haha that's a big conspiracy theory! But yeah it makes a lot of guys angry as well to see this happen.. and I know a lot of guys end up on the receiving end of the runaround.

sjmoore · 13 days

I don't understand your definition of "needy". I don't feel like dating for 3-4 months and then saying "we dont need to be a couple right now, I just want to let you know I'd definitely want that in the future with you" is needy. It offers time to grow into the idea and isn't demanding. If that's considered needy, then the guy is being a huge baby.

I also don't get the definition of "overreacting". When he said he wasn't the boyfriend type and never was, I asked why he didn't tell me upfront and he said "I don't know". I said that felt dishonest and I kind of feel like I was strung along/used for his enjoyment. Today we're hanging out again to keep things going but talk more. I feel like that'd show a POSITIVE outlook since i communicate, but I guess not.

EDIT: sorry if that sounded snippy, but I get really tired of girls like me being calm and communicative in relationships, then as soon as shit doesn't go the guys way he says shes "needy". It's a cop out and people need to grow up.

sjmoore · 13 days

You seem to have missed my entire point. You shouldn't tell someone you're not the boyfriend type AFTER you've been dating them for months. That's not being honest at all. When I said on date one "I'm looking to turn dates into a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship", he should have said "not me!".

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